Should I Text Him – Read This Before You Shoot Another Text!

should i text him

Should I text him or should I not?  Whoever thought that would be a one million dollar question in today’s dating and relating.  A lot of women are blatherers when it comes to texting.  They text long paragraphs with lots of abbreviations and repeatedly before he has a chance to respond. That takes away so much mystery out of your

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How To Get Him Interested Again After I’ve Messed Up?

Most of my clients find me after they have screwed up, royally with their boyfriends.  They have reached a point of desperation and are trying all the wrong things. At the end of their ropes, they ask me how to get him interested again.  Begging, pleading, texting him relentlessly, trying to get him to talk, will not work.  That comes

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Stop Being Emotionally Unavailable and Attract the Love of Your Life

how men fall in love

A non-committal man needs a non-committal woman for the non-relationship to continue.  When you stop being emotionally unavailable yourself you’ll easily be turned off by a lukewarm man.  And emotionally available feminine women always tend to be more drawn toward a man who is pursuing them. We are naturally melted by a guy’s active investment, not the other way around. That’s the

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Why Won’t He Marry Me Already?

Are you so wrapped up in the destination of marriage, asking the question why won’t he marry me, that you miss the beauty and purpose of your relationship? Not everyone needs to marry.  If you are so focused on the destination, you miss the journey, and it’s the journey that determines your destination in the first place.   Why won’t

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A Journey Home To Self, A Story of Awakening

inner work

Awakening is available to all because it’s a mere RETURN to our essence.  And that is why it is called “awakening” or “realization.”  It’s not something so grand, it is in fact very ordinary.  But we can’t see it because we are too busy in our delusion that is self-created through ignorance.  We have been lied to by and lost

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How To Heal a Painful Relationship And Attract More Love

I work with my clients to heal a painful relationship and attract more love in their life.  I teach them that love grows often when they just surrender, let go of control and go with what is. “Okay Kat, I am becoming a believer for sure!  Ex found yet another reason to text again out of the blue.  I dare

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Sign Up For My Leaning Back And Cultivating Feminine Mystique Workshop

“OMG our date was incredible. Didn’t make it out the front door without a kiss. He wanted to talk immediately when we got to dinner. He told me he was in love with me that he just panicked because things were going so fast and he was stressed over other issues in his life at the time. He asked me

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How To Be Feminine When Your Masculine Energy Gets You Everything In Life…Except Men!

how to be a feminine woman

How to be feminine shouldn’t be that difficult because you are gifted with feminine radiance already as a woman.  It is your conditioning and woundedness that prevents you from claiming your feminine divinity. Not along ago Anita from Manila, the Phillipines asked me why she seemed to have a problem attracting guys.  They seemed interested at first but nothing has

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He’s Not Really Over His Ex, Other Than That He’s A Wonderful Partner

why do men look at other women

If he’s not over his ex -in other words you are in a rebound relationship-, the principles and tools I teach still apply.  My way of living and loving is surrendering to the moment, going with the flow and accepting what is.  Control is an illusion.  Being controlling is the antithesis of getting what you want.  Struggling is hard to

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How To Have The Relationship Talk Or Should You?

how to have the relationship talk

If you are thinking how to have the relationship talk, consider letting a man bring up the talk and move the relationship to the next level. This is the most femininely romantic thing to do.  Allowing a man to lead is the key to a successful and happy relationship if being cherished as a woman is what you truly want. 

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