Salvation Through Relationship: Relationship As A Spiritual Practice

“It is not easy to live with an enlightened person, or rather it is so easy that the ego finds it extremely threatening.  Remember that the ego needs problems, conflict, and “enemies” to strengthen the sense of separateness on which its identity depends. The unenlightened partner’s mind will be deeply frustrated because its fixed positions are not resisted, which means

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A Journey Home To Self, A Story of Awakening

inner work

Awakening is available to all because it’s a mere RETURN to our essence.  And that is why it is called “awakening” or “realization.”  It’s not something so grand, it is in fact very ordinary.  But we can’t see it because we are too busy in our delusion that is self-created through ignorance.  We have been lied to by and lost

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Why The Alpha Female Finds It Hard To Have Lasting And Peaceful Relationships

alpha female

If you are an alpha female with beta traits, your relationship with your alpha partner will sooner or later run its course thanks to lack of polarity that will be exacerbated over time.  If you keep facing the same issues from one relationship to the next, it’s time to change yourself or… settle with a beta male who matches your

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Heal Your Wounded Feminine To Have The Relationship You Want

This is what many women who are still struggling in their masculine energy fail to comprehend.  It really doesn’t take masculine force to make a guy want to give you everything you want.  It’s the TOTAL opposite.  Heal your wounded feminine and your relationship will shift.   Last week I posted a status update on Facebook as follows:  “A guy

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How To Heal a Painful Relationship And Attract More Love

I work with my clients to heal a painful relationship and attract more love in their life.  I teach them that love grows often when they just surrender, let go of control and go with what is. “Okay Kat, I am becoming a believer for sure!  Ex found yet another reason to text again out of the blue.  I dare

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Getting Your Ex Back by Softening Your Boundaries

traits of a high value woman

We will never get anything we want from a man with emasculation and masculine forcefulness. Each time you use masculine energy on a man, you will lose and be left broken-hearted because he has much more of it.  When you are hardened the last thing a man wants to do is to commit to you.  This is the basis of

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