Timeline Of A Relationship – What Is Normal?

 Many women are getting so hung up on what is the normal, healthy timeline of a relationship.  What is the right timeline for sex?  The right timeline to be exclusive?  To call each other girlfriend and boyfriend?  To get engaged, get married and have babies?  Truth be told there is no “should” on timeline.  Every situation and relationship is different.

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Is He Emotionally Unavailable Or Does Your Anxiety Make Him So?

You may wonder is he emotionally unavailable.  You read the signs of his hot and cold, push pull behavior as emotionally unavailable.  Often this may not be the case at all.  It could be that you aren’t creating the space for him to feel safe showing his emotions to you in the first place.  Jenny wrote me: “Hi Katarina, I

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