Why Won’t He Marry Me Already?

Are you so wrapped up in the destination of marriage, asking the question why won’t he marry me, that you miss the beauty and purpose of your relationship? Not everyone needs to marry.  If you are so focused on the destination, you miss the journey, and it’s the journey that determines your destination in the first place.   Why won’t

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Yes, You Can Make Him Chase And Want You More After Sex

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Women in my opinion get way to hung up on how many dates before sex.  They over think it and often use sex as a bargaining chip to get commitment. They have an agenda and men can fell that unappealing energy from miles away.    Chelsea is one of the most successful clients I have.  She’s displaying the seven traits

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Why Bringing Up Sexual Exclusivity Before Sex Or Early In the Game Rarely Works

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Women often make sex a bargaining chip or if not they feel ashamed  to have sex before commitment.  Basically those women are a anxious attacher to begin with. The dating niche caters so much to that anxiety by making it as if it was the sex that is the problem, instead of the person(s) who has/have the sex.  It is

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How To Make a Man Fall Madly In Love And Stay Madly In Love With You

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 Many of my clients have the burning question of how to make a man fall madly in love with you.  They think there is something they can do, a way to behave makes a man fall madly in love.  The reality is, it is your feminine energy that makes a man fall madly in love with them. My client Arida

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Is He Emotionally Unavailable Or Does Your Anxiety Make Him So?

You may wonder is he emotionally unavailable.  You read the signs of his hot and cold, push pull behavior as emotionally unavailable.  Often this may not be the case at all.  It could be that you aren’t creating the space for him to feel safe showing his emotions to you in the first place.  Jenny wrote me: “Hi Katarina, I

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How To Get Him To Commit Without Chasing Or Ultimatum?

How to get him to commit?  That’s the question most women have in their heads at some point in the relationship.  I teach how to inspire men to commit without bringing up the talk, in fact without doing much of anything at all ’cause she’s basking in her feminine essence. A high value woman doesn’t need to do that. A high-value

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He Can’t Step Up If You Keep Beating Him To The Punch

How to get him to step up if you’re the one who is rowing the boat?  You can’t.  Here’s the fact: most relationships that thrive always start with men who are more eager about the women than the other way around.   It’s true in my case and many other people I know.  The guys really “chase” and lead.  The

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He’s Not Ready To Commit After Eight Years, What Should I Do?

You don’t want to be with a guy who questions his ability to stay committed to you because he’s being truthful to you and himself and you’d better believe him. And if after 8 years your relationship isn’t deepening, stop investing UNTIL he steps up. Here’s a situation with a client/reader: “Hi Katarina, Just purchased your book, in the middle of

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