Why Bringing Up Sexual Exclusivity Before Sex Or Early In the Game Rarely Works

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Women often make sex a bargaining chip or if not they feel ashamed  to have sex before commitment.  Basically those women are a anxious attacher to begin with. The dating niche caters so much to that anxiety by making it as if it was the sex that is the problem, instead of the person(s) who has/have the sex.  It is

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Is He Emotionally Unavailable Or Does Your Anxiety Make Him So?

You may wonder is he emotionally unavailable.  You read the signs of his hot and cold, push pull behavior as emotionally unavailable.  Often this may not be the case at all.  It could be that you aren’t creating the space for him to feel safe showing his emotions to you in the first place.  Jenny wrote me: “Hi Katarina, I

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How To Get Him To Commit Without Chasing Or Ultimatum?

How to get him to commit?  That’s the question most women have in their heads at some point in the relationship.  I teach how to inspire men to commit without bringing up the talk, in fact without doing much of anything at all ’cause she’s basking in her feminine essence. A high value woman doesn’t need to do that. A high-value

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He’s Not Ready To Commit After Eight Years, What Should I Do?

You don’t want to be with a guy who questions his ability to stay committed to you because he’s being truthful to you and himself and you’d better believe him. And if after 8 years your relationship isn’t deepening, stop investing UNTIL he steps up. Here’s a situation with a client/reader: “Hi Katarina, Just purchased your book, in the middle of

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