How To Make a Man Fall Madly In Love And Stay Madly In Love With You
Many of my clients have the burning question of how to make a man fall madly in love with you. They think there is something they can do, a way to behave makes a man fall madly in love. The reality is, it is your feminine energy that makes a man fall madly in love with them.
My client Arida wrote: “It was my EUM’s birthday yesterday and it was exactly a year since we got to know each other. We got into an argument about something that was not my fault the night before. I have been helping him and his family for too many things but it was something that went bad. Some sort of a bad deal but it wasn’t my fault. I was so hurt with what he said that I could only manage to cover my face and cried. Only then he realized he went too far and kept apologizing the whole night. He even held my hand telling me that it was a bad day for him.
I know he was missing his dad and he has too many problems lately but he doesn’t have the rights to make it my responsibility to help him. I help him out of love and sincerity without any expectations and i told him that. It was the first argument we had in ages! All this while he had always treated me with so much love, kindness and respect.
I guess that’s why I was so shocked. I decided to stay away from him and his drama for a few days. He was sad with my decision because he wanted to spend time with me on his special day. I told him that we’ll celebrate it just not now.
I feel like it’s the best decision I made. I do my own thing, spend time with family and enjoy texting with new people I got to know from the dating site..,and, boy, I am popular there…lol. I really feel tired of his drama and I feel strong by putting my needs first instead of his. If I hadn’t found Katarina Phang, I would have still been over functioning. I didn’t even apologize for leaving him alone. The good part is that he understands and gives me my space, telling me to take care.
From the argument, we became emotionally closer, but from the argument too, I feel slightly detached from him because I know that I deserve more than this type of relationship. Who knows, I might walk away from him one day.
BTW, this is a beautifully written article by Katarina Phang that changed my life. I keep rereading it to the point I believe that I am the goddess she writes about in the article. I think if I just read the article without getting any coaching from you, the article may seem unimportant but when I read it together with you coaching, it really transforms me into a better woman that I never thought I could be. I love you, Kat.”
What’s been happening with Arida is the result of a profound personal transformation that my method affects in many of my most committed clients. She is in the current Journey Inward group coaching and planning to take the next cycle of Leaning Back Workshop.
Do This and You Won’t Have to Worry About How to Make a Man Fall Madly in Love
When she puts herself on the pedestal he’ll have to look up to her and all is done without anger or jadedness but it comes from self-love and healthy boundaries that engender love, devotion, emotional attraction and respect. What she does to her EUM is the example of unconditional love as well as unwavering self-love in her surrender to her feminine radiance. And this combo is what makes a man fall deeply in love with a woman as he is obviously so emotionally attached to her already.
This is the exact same thing that I experienced with my EUM even though eventually these guys might not be able to commit, but that’s not the point. The point is you become a full person that is not lacking in options that it doesn’t matter in the end if he can’t commit because the next guy(s) will be more than happy to have a woman like you in his life/their lives. What’s valuable is he actually helps you to become a healed person and lead you into a breakthrough that changes your life forever, like what Arida has been experiencing.
She’s more grounded and at peace with herself now realizing that she has options and whatever may happen she knows and she feels it in her heart that she’ll be just fine.
She is a high-value woman and a woman like her is in high demand thanks to the short supply of such women. And if she keeps doing this her self-esteem will soar further and she’ll have no problem to walk away when the time comes as she has already proven to herself that she’s capable to remove herself from drama by claiming her own space. It used to be her that created so much drama with her unhappiness of their situation.
I don’t teach the hardening of boundaries. I teach the softening of boundaries. This is one of the myriad ways my method is so different to the generic dating advice out there that doesn’t really work.
This is what I mean by what I teach in the Leaning Back and Cultivating Feminine Mystique Workshop that by leaning back your self-esteem improves cause he has to keep leaning forward (if he’s into you enough). It evens out the imbalanced investment. Now the tables are turned you’ll know nothing/nobody can hurt your without your permission. And the hurt is caused by the hardening of boundaries. You can now be more detached because he is more attached. And that’s how a man falls madly in love with you. Theory proven!
The opposite will make you feel more in love and him less and less attracted to you. This is so gentle and self-transformational unlike “cutting out a limb” when you are advised to leave a man when you are not emotionally done. And this method is so unique you won’t find it anywhere else.
It works like a charm to make a man fall madly in love. And it works like a charm because it’s psychologically savvy. It’s so beyond my own wildest dreams how well it works. It’s because it heavily focuses on self. When you are committed to it, it doesn’t take months or years but days/weeks. The longest and hardest part is to affect that permanent change in you because most women will relapse every now and then till the new patterns and mental habits take place.
I get feedback from my biggest fans how the typical advice make them more anxious because the focus is often on the men and they have little to no control over them. An anxious woman does not know how to make a man fall madly in love with her. Or they are told to be “authentic” when authenticity is the last thing they need at the moment as they are so messed-up inside (and those “authentic” women often push men away). The women in my inner circle are among the most teachable, grounded and sane women I’ve seen in the entire time I spend on relationship blogs/forums. They are ready to receive my message and take 100% responsibility of the state of their failed relationships.
However, a lot of my advice is very counter-intuitive too. That’s why it’s so different to most generic advice you get out there. And I have had some clients resist my advice so much but once they open their minds and give it a try, they’re able to see what I’ve been dying to tell them. My advice is all experiential. It’s very Zen. You can intellectualize it till the cows come home based on your belief and attachment to you belief but until you see it firsthand you’ll be stuck on that level forever.
Personal growth and change are all a matter of paradigm shift. This shift is how you make a man fall madly in love with you. When you are still in resistance mode, you’re not free. It means you have some work to do to iron that out. Do something different cause obviously what you’ve been doing hasn’t worked. And screw belief and values if they are not making you happy. Tweak them.
Your fixation to ideas and belief have you stuck in that unhappy place. And until you challenge yourself out of your comfort zone, you shall remain stuck.
Wanna hear Arida’s story and learn so much from her how to turn around a dead relationship? Click here, you’ll be blown away by her interview. Sign up also for the Feminine Goddess Elightened Relationship monthly membership to hear future other Goddesses’ stories like her.
UPDATE: Arida has been claimed! They are now official. Read her story here. My new program Four Components Of Melting A Man’s Heart will show you how to smoothen the path toward commitment. This is one course you can’t afford to miss!
Want the same result and to learn more the ins and outs of inspiring the man you adore to commit to you THE MOST DEFINITE WAY? Here’s the most affordable way: by working with me face to face in a very relaxed, fun and intimate setting in my own home! And you will get some of the coaching programs I mention here as bonuses as well so you can start listening to them before coming to the weekend getaway. I promise you it’ll be one of the most worthwhile investments you’ll ever make in your life. Your life will turn upside down for the better after the retreat if you practice all the skills I teach there.
Have you read my book yet? If not grab it here because you will learn so much about a lot of things that haven’t worked for you in your love life and how to fix them. This is the primer before delving deeper into my method. And many women have pulled their guys back from the brink through practicing the tools and principles I outline there. And you will be included in the two lively private groups I own and see how women transform themselves there to become a high-value woman.
Please share this with the buttons below and I’d like to hear your comments as well (and don’t forget to subscribe to this blog for more insight into the mind of men on the right side bar so you’ll get notified for each new post).
Image credit Deposit Photo!