How To Be Irresistible to Men with Emotional Freedom
I can teach you a radical way how to be irresistible to men because I almost exclude men from the equation altogether until you really know who you are. As I said over and over, the men in your life are in your life for a reason: because you invite them and they vibrate at the same frequency you do. Heal your wounds, get to emotional freedom and everything else will fall into place.
My first week Journey Inward group coaching‘ class went really well last Saturday. There were a lot of shift in both me and the ladies who attended or listened to the replay.
I’m grateful that I actually see things more clearly myself after the class. I can see why many women who come to me can’t get out their state of suffering ’cause they are still trapped in their unhealed wounds.
As the saying goes, when one is ready the teacher will arrive. Many of these women aren’t ready and they are too attached to their own baggage to see the big picture.
When thinking about how to be irresistible to men, take a look at the word irresistible. It’s the opposite of resist. Your resistance in life is a big block. Resistance of what is. You need to control the outcome.
I remember how I was like that myself when I was fresh out of my marriage. I was so wounded I couldn’t see beyond my pain and the urgency of numbing that gnawing pain. I couldn’t think personal growth and stuff. I wasn’t on the elevated spot from which I could see things clearly from above. I was too trapped in the rock bottom and it was all about immediate survival.
You can only see clarity when you see it on the experiential level, not intellectual level. So jump with both feet and experience life without conceptualizing it so much that you over think it. All my principles: no expectation, radical acceptance of what is, being process-oriented, leaning back, training ground, etc…all fit into the picture of how to be irresistible to men. I’m not teaching a pie-in-the-sky theory that isn’t grounded in reality or separate from our earthly experience.
Here’s what one of my Journey Inward group coaching‘s participants wrote the day after the class in our support group: “I’ve been listening to part of the replay, and already it stirred up a lot of emotions. First off, I definitely know now that there is a gap between where I am and where I want to be. I’ve always wanted more and that feeling of elevation in all aspects of life is a big desire for me. There is a lot of work I need to do for myself first. As for the men in my life, it hit me that almost all of them are EUMs because I, too, am acting (or am) an EUW. But I also think part of it is because of my relationship with my father, we were never that close. He was always working, so I also tend to be attracted to workaholics (my EUM works long hours at 2 jobs, for example). But, I, too, am a workaholic. There is so much for me to do for myself. Sometimes I do feel down but now I’m realizing that I’m already amazing and that I have all this untapped gifts inside me. I’m slowly processing this so I’m taking my time with these lessons :)”
Through coaching many women I see an obvious pattern here: many women are attracted to challenges, hence they are with emotionally unavailable men. An emotionally unavailable women can’t be irresistible to men. They are reliving the relationships they had with their fathers growing up. Available guys aka nice guys are not manly enough for these women. They’re too easy and they don’t invoke the “in love” feeling unlike when they are yearning for the EUM. So conclusion: it’s YOU who needs to heal that woundedness. When you are whole, you will never be hurt like this anymore. Nobody can hurt you without your permission.
For instance, the higher frequency I vibrate I begin to clearly see the evolution of my self and my relationships. I no longer yearn for my ex because I see clearly why he was in my life: to help me heal my woundedness and vice versa. He’s not for a lifetime. He’s for a season and A REASON. Once you can see this, there will be no longing in you for past relationships and exes. This is so liberating.
The men in your life are the reflection of you. You vibrate on the same level of frequency. You share the same level of woundedness. If you want a better crop of men, you have to belong to a better crop of women yourself.
The purpose of this group coaching is really more about UNLEARNING our old programming than learning new ways of doing things, cause mostly it’s about less doing (less thinking, less obsessing, less expecting, less controlling, less caring, less wanting, less needing, less attaching, less identifying with thoughts and feelings) and more being. Learning this is how you become irresistible to men.
How to Be Irresistible to Men Through Your Emotional Freedom
What I teach is so radical because I almost exclude men from the equation altogether until you really know who you are. As I said over and over, the men in your life are in your life for a reason: because you invite them and they vibrate at the same frequency you do. Heal your wounds and everything else will fall into place. This is how to be irresistible to men.
What I have learnt through my own and my client’s hardship is most of our relationship issues come from our own unhealed wounds. It all starts and ends with ourselves. It means once we work to heal those wounds -i.e. change ourselves- our partners will also change with us. They have to.
It might seem counter intuitive but you’ll be surprised at how true that is and how well it works. Try it yourself.
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As my client Manda wrote in my private group confirming my own finding: “I would just like to commend Katarina Phang for her teachings of self-discovery and empowering us all to be better and stronger individuals. Each day I am learning something new about myself and about my life. Learning is a beautiful journey and we all should be so proud of how far we all have come. It’s not about the men in our lives its about us and about healing our wounded souls from our pasts. Since my coaching with Kat I have a new outlook on life and I actually am beginning to love myself again and rebuild trust within myself. You see I thought I didn’t trust men but I didn’t trust myself. Letting go starts with me not anyone else. Self-love, without it sounding cliche, will set you free. Boost your soul your self confidence and self worth and work on you love you and the rest will fall into place. Get high value without the arrogance. Thank you Kat for the endless support.”
When couples grow apart or connection is broken, it’s because one or both are resisting something. There is a blockage somewhere. Find the roots of that resistance and heal them.
And when you are healed, you always know when it’s time to walk away. If you are still in doubt, your journey is not over yet. Though it’s painful to watch I’ll tell you go back there and learn your lessons and heal that part of your woundedness.
Are you having issues in your relationship and you don’t know where to go? Grab my book and resolve all those issues once and for all. And you will be included in the two lively private groups I own and see how women transform themselves there to become a high-value woman.
Bottom line is when you clear all mental blocks (which I also teach in the group coaching) and heighten your frequency, you will invite all great things in life: money, relationship, love, etc… You will become so irresistible because you are free of baggage.
And sign up for recurring group coaching The Journey Inward: The First Steps Toward Feminine Magnetism™ Mastery. I will reveal all the keys you need on how to be irresistible to men by melting a man’s resistance to commitment there.
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