Members LoginHandling All The Men Contacting You During The Pandemic
The skeletons are falling out of the closet. Men you haven’t heard from in years. Men you don’t know at all. Poof out of nowhere. Popping in your messages. Ringing your phone.
Truth be told, it’s probably not just happening to women. Men are getting it too. The thing is, many of you women are way overthinking this.
People are out of work. Confined to their houses for the most part. They are bored. They are reminiscing, taking walks down memory lane and feeling nostalgic.
I am guilty myself. I have remembered past encounters with men (and humans in general) that I had long forgotten even existed.
I spent about 5 minutes reminiscing over an encounter I had on the lake one night with a man on a jet ski that lasted until the morning. Doesn’t mean a thing. Fond memory.
It’s normal. We are human. Many of you are trying to find some meaning in this contact. Does he miss me? Does he want me back? Is he looking for a booty call? Who knows? Why care?
Some are scared and feeling unsettled and unsafe right now. They are reaching back to the old and familiar. See it for what it is.
Suggestions on Handling this Parade
I have seen quite a few women posting things like my ex from 7 years ago just contacted me to check on me during this pandemic. How should I answer or should I just ignore him?
The peanut gallery often chimes in saying he just wants a booty call. The defensive filter as I call it.
Just answer the guy and you will know soon enough what his intentions are. Likely he is just bored and you just happened to cross his mind. Nothing more, nothing less.
If he was a whack job or you still feel bitterness or anger, ignore him.
I received a message from a number I did not recognize that just said “Hello Stranger.” I didn’t respond to that one. If I don’t have his number saved, I most likely don’t need to connect again.
I don’t harbor ill feelings towards any of my exes so this is a non issue. I can easily chat for a bit and then leave it. Say, thanks for reaching out, stay safe and go on about my day without analyzing if it has any meaning.
Playing with Strangers in a Pandemic
Random men are going to show up. Again, you can ignore them or go on the defense or you can play and entertain yourself.
Yesterday in popped some random dude asking me what I was up to. I replied I was homeschooling my 8 kids. He said “wow that is a lot of kids.” I said I actually have 11 but three were grown and on their own.
He kept going. Gotta hand it to him if he wasn’t deterred by a woman with 11 kids.
I ended the conversation saying I had ocean front property in Arizona and to take care.
I got a laugh. Maybe he did too or maybe not.
Lighten up ladies.
Will He Still Be Interested When the Pandemic is Over?
I can’t answer this question. I broke my crystal ball a long time ago. You might want to break yours too or at the least put it away before you drive yourself crazy.
Learn to or at least attempt to engage without the expectations. When you drop the expectations you are free to be who you are for there is no agenda.
He may like who you are or he may run for the hills when this is all over.
Nobody knows so just relax. Let the chips fall without wondering why he resurfaced or what it means.
Again lighten up ladies. The truth has a way of revealing itself when you relinquish control.
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