Why He Won’t Talk About His Feelings – He Doesn’t Feel Safe With You

So he won’t talk about his feelings and you are taking it all personal.  When you measure the success of your relationship on what he does or does not do, you won’t be happy. He sees your  requests for more of his feelings as controlling and pressure.  This doesn’t inspire him to open up more to you, but quite the

Read more

Don’t Miss My Bi-Weekly Teleclass: Why Do Women Hang On To A Relationship Past Its Expiry Date?

  UPDATE: I just uploaded the teleclass “Why Do Women Hang Onto Relationship Past Its Expiry Date” from June last year in which I read my client Kellie’s story of her breakup (that was when she first found me). She’s now back with her sweetheart after signing up for every cycle of Journey Inward and the Leaning Back Workshop). She is

Read more

He Can’t Step Up If You Keep Beating Him To The Punch

How to get him to step up if you’re the one who is rowing the boat?  You can’t.  Here’s the fact: most relationships that thrive always start with men who are more eager about the women than the other way around.   It’s true in my case and many other people I know.  The guys really “chase” and lead.  The

Read more

Don’t Miss Katarina Phang’s First Teleclass: What Is Convenience Relationship And How Not To Fall Into This Trap

  Don’t miss my first teleclass ever next Thursday, June 13 at 5 p.m PST (mark this on your calendar) on “What Is Convenience Relationship And How Not To Fall Into This Trap.” I’ll be interviewing my boyfriend Joe who was once in this kind of arrangement himself (convenient to him, that was).  He’ll share how women often are the

Read more

Should I Tell Him All My Feelings And Everything That Bothers Me With Feeling Messages?

should i tell him how i feel

The belief that we women need and are entitled to express anything and everything we feel anytime they arise is why many of us have problems relating with men.  What doesn’t help either is when women are being told to be “authentic” by expressing themselves anytime they want to and bring up whatever subject that comes up in their head or

Read more

How to Mirror a Man to Survive Unrequited Love

how to mirror a man

Katarina, your principles and tools on how to mirror a man work like a charm.  I feel like a woman in this relationship, something that is so totally new and alien to me.  A knight in shining armor truly exists.  I don’t think I can go back to the ways things were after learning all these things from you.  You

Read more
1 7 8 9