Is He A Narcissist Or Am I? Four Signs Of Narcissistic Traits

Is he a narcissist or am I?

How many of you label a guy as a narcissist without even bothering to look at your own neuroses?  Unfortunately, it has become a trend nowadays and I want to correct it, once and for all.  Maybe you’re the narcissist after all. I have noticed as of late this trend among women to very handily psycho analyze guys as narcissistic. 

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How Relationship Can Make You Conscious, Instead Of Happy

relationship is to make you conscious.

Relationship isn’t to make you happy, it’s to make you conscious.  So don’t seek happiness in relationship but seek to be conscious.  That’ll be your greatest gift not only to yourself and your relationship but the whole of mankind. So our first retreat was a total blast.  It’s better than I expected though I had no expectation. 🙂  Everyone loved

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The Perils Of Mixing My Relationship Advice With Others

There are tons of half-baked dating advice out there.  Be careful whose advice you’re following.  And when you mix good advice and half-baked advice that doesn’t consider your contribution to the problem, you’ll get the results of the bad advice, not the good one.   Vivi wrote in the group:  “After 6 months of dating Guy #1 … had to

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I Divorced Him And I Want Him Back, Here’s Not What To Do

marrying your ex husband

You want to get back together with your ex husband?  And not only that he also has a girlfriend!  Here’s not what to do. My client Kimi who recently announced that her ex-husband proposed again after 5 years of divorce (and no contact) shared that they had set the wedding date, “Well…. Save the date now… For August 20, 2016!!!! The

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How She Got Him To Finally Propose After An Ultimatum And A Breakup That Followed

Are you about to give him an ultimatum: marry me or else…?  You’re lucky you get to read this article first.  Fact is the more you rush him, the slower it gets because you’re creating stumbling blocks to your connection.  Ultimatums don’t work cause it’s not love.  If marriage is sacred to you (hence you want it so bad), why

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Timeline Of A Relationship – What Is Normal?

 Many women are getting so hung up on what is the normal, healthy timeline of a relationship.  What is the right timeline for sex?  The right timeline to be exclusive?  To call each other girlfriend and boyfriend?  To get engaged, get married and have babies?  Truth be told there is no “should” on timeline.  Every situation and relationship is different.

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