Most of us see relationship as a place to get all our needs met. We idealize a mere mortal to become a person to go to for our validations. That’s what falling in love is all about. It’s the process of pedestalizing our object of desire into a some sort of savior to our sense of lack within ourselves. Do
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We have all met someone and felt an instant connection. Like you had known one another for a lifetime. Things just flow. You may even feel you have known them in another life. There are more stories in my life and the life of others than I can count where even though we feel a deep connection, it fizzles, he
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If you have followed Katarina Phang you have probably heard her say “A boyfriend is as a boyfriend does.” Yet countless women continue to act like a girlfriend to a man who does not provide the actions of a boyfriend. They remain loyal to a title and in the process self abandon. Not all proclaimed boyfriends are actually boyfriends. I
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Contrary to what many believe, rotational dating leads to love and a committed relationship faster than dating one man at a time. It does not mean you are a player or a user, but is a smart and sensible route to take if you are looking for a solid relationship. Have you ever met a guy and just instantly put
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Do you wonder and worry “will I be single forever?” Will I die alone? This is a real fear experienced by so many in the world. Many are consumed by this fear. I remember a time in my life where I “thought” I was so in love with a man who obviously was not in love with me, for like
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Texting is about how every relationship starts. Your texting habits can reveal a lot about you. A high value woman knows how to use this tool to her advantage. She recognizes texting as just that; a tool in her dating arsenal. Not a measuring stick of if and where the relationship is going. She knows texting can fan the flames
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Do you wonder why you aren’t attracted to or can’t fall in love with a nice guy? There is a logical reason and you may not be crazy at all. Ever found yourself on a date with a man and he was so nice, yet you just didn’t feel a thing? You thought “what is wrong with me,” “why can’t
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While every woman has value, sadly many women still operate as low value women. Value comes from your own perceived self worth and this is where the issue lies. Women who perceive themselves as low value are often unaware. Their past traumas, experiences and perceptions cause them to operate in relationships with men from a place of fear. They fear
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Before a man will include you completely into his life, he must feel safe with you. Emotionally safe. I have discovered many women have no clue how to make a man feel safe or what a man feeling safe even looks or feels like. When you read the typical post on how to make a man feel safe, it’s usually
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Many women dream of dating a rich, wealthy man. For some it’s the thought of no longer having to worry about money. For others, they long for the social status. The perceived life of glamour. Katarina has received quite a bit of inquiries recently, “Would your stuff work on billionaires?” She responded quite self-assuredly, “If there is one method at
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