How to be indispensable at both work and love is very straightforward and obvious. Be the very person you want to hire or be with. It’s like DUH! 🙂 When I first started in the business as a part-time blogger/affiliate marketer in 2010 I didn’t think or plan or expect that I would be where I am today. It was
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Those with big hearts suffer the most is a meme that I see floating around on social media almost daily. Posted almost as if it’s some badge of honor. I can bet the one that post these sorts of quotes has just had their heart broken or been let down and disappointed yet again. Big heart and suffer to me
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Leaning back is not a strategy to get a man. It is giving a man space. Space to show you who he is. It’s giving yourself space to observe his intentions. Leaning back is about managing your emotional investment. Right from the very start. Yet many women use leaning back when a man isn’t stepping up like they desire or
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When a man asks us to date him exclusively, we women put the label of relationship behind the word exclusive and often, the situation is far from a relationship. When two people agree to exclusivity, they are agreeing to only date, engage with and have sex with each other. While this can be the stage right before he commits, often
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We all have our beliefs. Some serve us, some don’t. Beliefs are not something we are born with. They are learned and adopted from people like our parents, peers and from our life experiences. Our life experiences often layer up, layer upon layer and reinforce these self-limiting beliefs. A cycle of self-sabotage, especially when it comes to affairs of the
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Most of us see relationship as a place to get all our needs met. We idealize a mere mortal to become a person to go to for our validations. That’s what falling in love is all about. It’s the process of pedestalizing our object of desire into a some sort of savior to our sense of lack within ourselves. Do
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We have all met someone and felt an instant connection. Like you had known one another for a lifetime. Things just flow. You may even feel you have known them in another life. There are more stories in my life and the life of others than I can count where even though we feel a deep connection, it fizzles, he
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If you have followed Katarina Phang you have probably heard her say “A boyfriend is as a boyfriend does.” Yet countless women continue to act like a girlfriend to a man who does not provide the actions of a boyfriend. They remain loyal to a title and in the process self abandon. Not all proclaimed boyfriends are actually boyfriends. I
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Contrary to what many believe, rotational dating leads to love and a committed relationship faster than dating one man at a time. It does not mean you are a player or a user, but is a smart and sensible route to take if you are looking for a solid relationship. Have you ever met a guy and just instantly put
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Do you wonder and worry “will I be single forever?” Will I die alone? This is a real fear experienced by so many in the world. Many are consumed by this fear. I remember a time in my life where I “thought” I was so in love with a man who obviously was not in love with me, for like
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