Why No Sex Before Commitment Turns Into A Power Struggle That Stalls Your Relationship

Are you determined to employ the no sex before commitment policy?  I’m telling you, you’re doing yourself and your relationship a disservice.  If you understand how a guy comes to the decision to commit you won’t even entertain that useless piece of advice. Demanding commitment before sex is creating unnecessary obstacles toward the organic blooming of a relationship.  It is fear

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Why Bringing Up Sexual Exclusivity Before Sex Or Early In the Game Rarely Works

Women often make sex a bargaining chip or if not they feel ashamed  to have sex before commitment.  Basically those women are a anxious attacher to begin with. The dating niche caters so much to that anxiety by making it as if it was the sex that is the problem, instead of the person(s) who has/have the sex.  It is

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It’s Not About When to Have Sex in a Relationship, It’s About Whether Or Not You Are A Whole Package

When you ask yourself: “when to have sex in a relationship?”, the question should be rephrased to: “do I want to have sex” and “for what reasons,” and “would I be okay with whatever outcome I might get out of this?”   Today I’d like to talk about sex and dating and the conundrum status it has acquired among so

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