Recently one of my single girlfriends came to this conclusion that she needed to prove herself to the guy she was dating because he told her he was afraid of his feeling towards her. Oh boy! Here we go again. The perfect stalling tactic a guy uses when he isn’t sure about you yet.
This is one of many things men will say to pace you when they feel you are getting ahead of them in the game. A few other things men say along these lines are:
- I am scared of getting hurt
- You deserve better
- I want to take it slow
- I don’t know what I want
- I am confused
- When this or that gets better, things will change